On gay friendship, the scene, and getting to know each other without the pressure.
People hear the name and imagine all sorts. The honest answer, as I said on Friend of Dorothy, is that it's just a really fun weekend, the kind you would have with mates. The whole thing is just a pretext to get to know each other.
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Under Queerty's Instagram post about us in September, one comment put the case against No Sex Gay Weekend about as clearly as it can be put:
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When Queerty put their September piece about us on Instagram, the comments filled up fast. Some people loved it. A lot of people didn't. I replied in the thread, and since it's the shortest account of this project I've ever managed, here it is:
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In the summer of 2025, before a single weekend had run, we opened a waitlist and 450 guys signed up in 36 hours. I made a TikTok that day, and said this:
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When Paul Gallant interviewed me for Pink Ticket Travel in 2025, this is what I said about friendship:
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In May 2025 I went back to the same gay resort in Torremolinos for a second time, and it felt nothing like the first. I made a TikTok about it, and Pink Ticket Travel quoted it a few months later. It's still the plainest way I know to say what was wrong:
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I used to flirt with every single gay guy I met, whether I fancied him or not. I didn't notice how much I was doing it until I stopped.
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Are you feeling better or worse at the end of the night? It's a question I started asking myself on a gay holiday, and I haven't been able to stop asking it.
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It's kind of tricky to make gay friends. I said that to Pink Ticket Travel in 2025, and it is still the most honest place I know to start.
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In March, QX Magasin in Sweden ran an interview I did with Ronny Larsson. It ran in Swedish, so what follows is the English of what I said. This is the line from it I'd point to first:
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The thing about Grindr is that the main criterion by which it shows you people is how close they are. It's the location. I said this on the Friend of Dorothy podcast, and once you've noticed it, it's hard to stop noticing.
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New locations, early access, and the occasional update from Chris.